What is "Spiritual Narcissism"?

I came across the term "spiritual narcissist" a few days ago which set my research brain in overdrive.

First, understand that "narcissism" is a predominant feature of today's society. We have become so self-absorbed. Regular posts to FaceBook regarding our dinner, entertainment, or relationship woes or highs are prevalent. Twitter is even faster! And how exciting to have several thousand "followers"!

It's all about ME! They love ME! Aren't I so important?!?

Second, patients with extreme self-love to those who show signs of narcissistic personality disorder are dealt with by psychologists on a daily basis. The spectrum is wide ranging but all need to be dealt with so that the individual can properly function in personal relationships and life experiences in general.

The most basic of definitions for "spiritual narcissism" is pride running wild without an ounce of true humility. Indications of this behavior often include anger when they are rebuked, failure to submit to authority, failure to admit wrong, a critical spirit toward anyone who does not see things their way, and manipulating others through division to name only a few. "Spiritual narcissists" have an uncanny way of feigning "humility". "Oh, no, I could never do that. Well, if YOU think I should, of course, I will be in charge." They have made getting people on "their side" an art form. Hang around a spiritual narcissist long enough and you will pick up their offenses; if you don't, then you are on the "outs" with them and will be punished in some way... usually through intimidation or ostracism. "Spiritual narcissists" are skilled at knowing what buttons to push to get you to do what they want. In other words, they know EXACTLY what to do or allow you to do to play to your own pride.

Romans 12:3  For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.

Galatians 6:3  For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.

After reading a number of articles, definitions, etc. I believe the following two blog posts seem to have the most down to earth and understandable explanations regarding "spiritual narcissism".

"Spiritual Narcissism" http://leadingfromthesandbox.blogspot.com/2011/02/spiritual-narcissism.html

"Dealing with Narcissists" http://leadingfromthesandbox.blogspot.com/2011/02/dealing-with-narcissists.html

Providing these links for your own research. This is purely informational.

Remember: be careful not to judge or label someone else as you are reading. We each must search our own hearts to be certain that WE are not the problem.