Friday, June 1, 2012

A Prayer for My Pastor

Quoted by Robert G. Lee in "Who Said That?" ~ Senator Robert S. Kerr -
A Prayer for My Pastor ~ "Our Father, let me be a pillar of strength to help hold him up and not a thorn in his back to pull him down. Let me support him without striving to possess him. Let me lift his hands without placing shackles around them. Let me give him help that he may devote more time in working for the sa
lvation of others and less time in gratifying my vanity. Let me work for him as the pastor of all the members and not compel him to spend precious time in bragging on me. Let me be unselfish in what I do for him and not selfish in demanding that he do more for me. Let me strive to serve him and the church much and be happy as he serves me less and the church and others more."

Oh, that we would only see WE BRING GRIEF to the man of God when we fight and bicker amongst ourselves; when we seek special treatment instead of putting ourselves and our desires aside for the furtherance of the Gospel; when we make unreasonable demands; when we think we can do better than he; when we resist the instruction of God's Word; when we question his authority; when we lack understanding of the vision God has given him.

Hebrews 13:17 ~ Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: FOR THAT IS UNPROFITABLE FOR YOU.

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Choose Love Over Anger

Jonathan Edwards ~ It is remarkable how forward men are to appear, as if they were zealous for God and righteousness, in cases wherein their honor, or will, or interest has been touched, and to make pretense of this in injuring others or complaining of them.
 (from The Spirit of Love the Opposite of An Angry or Wrathful Spirit, 1 Corinthians 13:5)

1 Corinthians 13

Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
 
And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.

And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.

For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.

10 But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.

11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.

13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

One Wrong Turn


Christmas of 2010 we purchased our first GPS – for Nathan. We did so because Nathan was at college in an unfamiliar city and we wanted to make sure that he could safely get around. But we also went by the local AAA office to pick up a free city map. The reason: we found that the GPS did not always give accurate directions. We wanted him to see the big picture and not just where he was on the screen of the GPS. How many times have we heard news stories about people getting lost in the wilderness or driving into a lake because they were following the GPS voice?

Having the right directions makes all the difference in the world when you are going some place. It is equally important to use a little brain power.

I mean, really, didn’t you wonder why you were being directed onto dirt road after dirt road? Did you really NOT see a large body of water? When you pulled into a parking lot and the voice in the box said, “300 feet until you arrive at your destination” as you drove into the front doors of the store, did it ever occur to you to look around and say to yourself, “Something just isn’t right about this.”? Just sayin’.

Sadly, I was reminded again this week the importance of making right decisions, of following God’s plan and not my own, or someone else’s. I was reminded that it is important to trust in the big picture of God’s plan and not just what I think I can see around me.

Many times we believe when we hear that someone falls in sin that they did so at that moment; that that is the decision making moment. However, that is not the case. There is always a time sometime in the past when the individual decided they are going to do it their way and not God’s way.

I cannot tell you the number of times people have told us that they wanted to serve God, but they put conditions on their service. While that sounds wonderful, spiritual even, that they wanted to serve the Lord, the problem was that they knew that God was opening doors for them to move to another ministry or place of service. They wanted to serve God their way, not God’s way. That was the wrong turn, the defining moment. From that point forward any decision made that did not lead back to what God was calling them to do, led them further and further away from God. Once you decide to not follow God, once you place conditions, however spiritual and well-meaning they sound, wrong decisions slowly become a way of life in every aspect of life. Numbness to the things and leading of God sets in. Things you would never consider doing… well, they are easily rationalized away.

We see this in Genesis with Cain and Abel. Adam had taught Cain and Abel the proper way to worship God – through a blood sacrifice. One day Cain brought the first fruits of his labor (fruits and vegetables) to sacrifice unto the Lord. Abel did likewise of the animals of his flock.

To be honest, Cain sounds like he was doing the right thing. He was offering a sacrifice. What is wrong with that? He was worshipping God. What is wrong with that? In Cain’s attempt to serve God, to worship Him, to follow Him, he failed to do so according to God’s plan. All the “right” things that Cain did became wood, hay and stubble in God’s eyes.

Abel followed God’s plan, Cain did not. Cain wanted to worship the Lord his way, not in the way that God said was right. The Bible says that Cain became “wroth” (angry, steamed, furious, livid, ticked, etc.) and that his “countenance fell”. In other words, you could clearly see he was angry and upset.

And Cain talked with Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him. Genesis 4:8

In the above verse we see that time elapsed. Cain had not realized that he needed to go back and make things right with the Lord; he continued to blame Abel for his own shortcomings. I’m sure that Cain would have never dreamed he would murder his own brother, but that is exactly what happened.


Are you following God’s road map for your life? Is the Lord leading you into an area of service that you simply are resisting to follow? Have you followed the voices of others who say, “It’s okay. You can serve God right here. You don’t need to go anywhere else to serve Him.”? Maybe you have told God how you would serve Him instead of listening to Him guide you where He wants you to be.

Where ever you may be in your walk with the Lord, take a look around. Over the years we have seen many fall by the wayside because they simply refused to move when God told them to. My reminder this week was from a man who had pastored for 30 years in the same church; it had been his only pastorate. Six years ago he revealed to us that the Lord was opening a door for him to move to another church away from his hometown. His very words were, “I just can’t do it; I can’t move. God is just going to have to use me here. I can’t leave this area. I don’t want to lose my family.” It was a slow process with many wrong turns to the final result, but now, he’s lost all that he had -- a sad ending to a man of God that could have been prevented with just one right turn.

Sin will take you farther, than you want to go,
Slowly, but wholly, taking control,
Sin will leave you longer, than you want to stay,
Sin will cost you far more, than you want to pay.
- The Cathedrals, “Sin Will Take You Farther”